He explains that despite being delighted to be a poster child for LGBTQ+ for Citigroup and comfortable being his “authentic self at work”, his priority is to be “an excellent banker first and an excellent LGBTQ+ banker second”. As a result, he won’t necessarily disclose his LGBTQ+ identity unless this is relevant and he knows the client.
“Coming out is not a one-time thing,” he says. “It’s a fluid process and sometimes you have to pick your moments. The first time I speak to a client from the Middle East, I’m probably not going to mention that I’m gay. They’ll be focused on what I can do for them, and I’ll be more concerned about delivering.”
High-performance culture equates to an inclusive culture
Much has been written about how productivity rises when employees feel they can be themselves at work without having to hide aspects of their identity
“I’ve seen estimates of a spike of 10% to 30% productivity improvement if someone feels comfortable and included in the office. Yet nearly half of LGBTQ+ employees in the US aren’t out at work,” says Nick, who as a junior doctor worked for St Bartholomew’s Hospital in the City of London.
He highlights a multi-country, multi-industry survey of more than 3,000 people for Vodafone in 2018 which showed that more than 40% of 18-to-25 year olds actually “go back in the closet” when they started their first job in order to avoid discrimination from managers and colleagues. The situation for trans workplace equality is even worse.
Nick says the dearth of visible LGBTQ+ senior leaders within businesses and organisations across industries and geographies reinforces that sense of “something’s not right here” and “I’m not sure if this place is for people like me”.
With just three openly LGBTQ+ Fortune 500 CEOs and one openly LGBTQ+ FTSE 100-listed CEO (Apple boss Tim Cook), Nick says this represents a “yawning aspiration gap”, which can be really demoralising.
One solution is London Business School’s new LGBTQ+ Executive Leadership programme, launching in July 2020 – a first within Europe and a programme that Nick helped to shape, working with School faculty to set it up. It’s only through such initiatives from credible institutions that he believes the pink ceiling can be broken.
“The most powerful thing an organisation can do to support inclusion and LGBTQ+ retention – apart from creating a strong ally network – is to offer the best training and coaching for ambitious LGBTQ+ professionals so that they have the confidence to embrace their true selves at work, realise their true potential, be a better leader and create that ‘trickle-down effect’.
“The idea of the LGBTQ+ programme at LBS is that you’ve got a cohort with a critical mass of management experience – they ask for eight years – so participants are quite senior in their companies. It’s a signal from their organisations that they want them to come back with the confidence and self-awareness to own their identity in the workplace, understand how to leverage networks and lead their team to deliver better results.
“And of course this is underpinned by the unparalleled business knowledge you get from having been at one of the world’s top business schools under the purview of world-class faculty doing cutting-edge research on the topic of workplace diversity and inclusion.
“For the businesses sending their high-achievers on this programme, it’s not just a fantastic message to those fortunate enough to be selected, but to the whole organisation. The PR message to the wider world is that the next Tim Cook could be sitting within their walls.”
But you don’t have to be as loud an LGBTQ+ ambassador as Nick to make a difference, he insists. “Simply be yourself. That’s enough to help change the world.”
Dr Nick Deakin was the 2017 winner of the Bain Student Impact Award & Graduating Student Award for his impact through the London Business School Out in Business Club. This included delivering the EUROUT conference and being a strategy teaching assistant in the Masters in Management (MiM) programme. He is an FT LGBTQ+ Future 50 Leader and was included in Poets and Quants’ 2017 ‘Top 100 Brightest and Best MBA Rankings’.